Friday, 4 June 2010


hey guys..

just a bit of an update. as i said, Ive told my wife that i like blokes.

Although she suspected or thought it highly likely i was gay, it was a still a shock to her...those comments a few weeks ago about beng a gay boy and others i mentioned...they were testing the water by her!! bit slow on the uptake me

we're still living together at the moment whilst we try and work out what this means for both of us. Obviously me fancing men is going to have consequences, but i still have emotional feelings towards my wife...things are very confused but i do feel better now its out in the open


  1. Hi there, JSL

    Thanks for the update - I was starting to wonder how you're getting on.

    I think it's good that you're taking the time to think things over and work out what the way forward is. You're in a complicated situation, and I don't see any need for you to hurry unduly.



  2. PS. Having just posted my previous comment, I noticed something odd: your post is showing as having been made on Friday 4 June at 16:13 - and yet it didn't show up (on my Blogger dashboard, at least) until this evening, almost six days later! I guess Blogger had some sort of hiccup.

  3. Confusion is going to be your friend for a while. Me and many others have walked the same path you are on now.

    Good Luck. Many hugs.