Friday, 18 June 2010

update and stuff

hey guys

i just did a post and stupid blogger lost it so will try and remember what i

my wife and i are still living together under the same roof and getting on. She has been incredibly supportive of me and what i have done despite how hard it is for her. Having been together for so long, we do share a special bond which neither of us wants to break, but need to find a way of living with the moment we are taking each day as it comes and see how our lives evolve after what i have done

in other news, i have got a tattoo..ive been wanting one for ages and finally took the plunge...i dont know whether it is part of me wanting to peel layers away or mid life crisis...but i love it:-)

i am feeling alot freer and more open in myself since things happened...i find myself flirting with guys in real life and chatting to them online...something ive never done before having been so tightly closeted, but enjoy the flirting immensely :-)

i'm gonna keep blogging to let you know whats happening in my life and keep you updated about stuff, if youre interested.

take care


  1. JSL - Wow! You were so worried about how your wife would feel and now she's being incredibly supportive? You are a lucky man! This whole process is very hard on both of you, but perhaps most difficult for the spouse. Jim of Conflicting Clarity has done a superb job of balancing his old life with his new one. He and wife remain very supportive of each other. I think that's the key. As much as you need your wife's support, she needs yours. Thanks for keeping the blog updated. I wish you and your wife all the best for the future. - Cameron

  2. Hi JSL - this is excellent news. I'm glad that things are going well. This will make things so much easier for both of you.

    Congrats on the tattoo, too.


  3. Hey bud
    Glad for you. And a big pat on the back for your wife she obviously loves you very much that she is willing to support you through your coming to terms with the feelings that you have hidden for so long. Congrats on the tattooTwice I have went to get one twice I have bottled out at the last minute