tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8677332081015615751.post7247497402222314082..comments2023-08-17T06:55:48.780-07:00Comments on too late for regrets: work - grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!JSLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08313343361027399275noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8677332081015615751.post-36909202420886232982010-04-16T11:32:09.229-07:002010-04-16T11:32:09.229-07:00Hi all
@NewLeaf: adultfriendfinder is advertised ...Hi all<br /><br />@NewLeaf: adultfriendfinder is advertised all over Xtube, so I think it's much more about the meeting of bodies than of minds. I haven't tried it myself.<br /><br />all: I'm having a trip away from home, so I will be "off-air" until late tomorrow UK time, possibly some time on Sunday.<br /><br />Take care<br /><br />MarkA Wandering Pomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13599770008028415551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8677332081015615751.post-16822166115640843282010-04-15T18:31:46.975-07:002010-04-15T18:31:46.975-07:00Maybe you could get some fleas - keep them in a ti...Maybe you could get some fleas - keep them in a tiny box. Every time you want to sleep alone, pop one on the duvet cover. <br /><br />Never heard of adultfriendfinder - I guess it depends on what you're looking for. Just want to talk to someone? adultfriendfinder doesn't sound like the best option. Looking to get horizontal with someone? adultfriendfinder might work great.<br /><br />You might also look for gay sporting groups in your area. We have a gay hiking group around here. It's a good way to meet guys similar to yourself outside of a cruisy environment.<br /><br />Good luck - <br />-nlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8677332081015615751.post-27063914371911580332010-04-15T15:59:49.815-07:002010-04-15T15:59:49.815-07:00Hi there, JSL
Work sounds pretty gruelling: I hop...Hi there, JSL<br /><br />Work sounds pretty gruelling: I hope you're being well rewarded for all the overtime, let alone the lack of ... ermmm... personal relief. Still, at least you can see some light at the end of the tunnel - I just hope it's not an approaching train :-)<br /><br />I don't see why liking to sleep in the bed on your own should sound "not nice". You're not saying that you particularly dislike sharing a bed with your wife, just that you enjoy the change of being on your own for once. This sounds like just the sort of thing that people in a relationship will compromise over for the sake of the relationship.<br /><br />Your not talking much doesn't sounds strange to me: I am, or can be, a lot less outgoing in real life than I am here in blog-land, and it's often the people I've known longest that I find most difficulty in opening up to. I guess that when you're talking to a stranger there are no preconceptions: you can just say what you want without worrying about how this may affect their existing view of you (because they don't have one). This is probably why blogging can be so liberating: there are no assumptions, no pre-existing points of view - you can just say what you need to without having to worry about what people will think.<br /><br />As for emotions, if you're anything like me, you may well find yourself becoming a lot more emotional in the months after you come out. I think that when you suppress your sexuality, it's quite possible to unconsciously suppress the emotions as well. The emotional release you get from coming out may well start opening up channels that have been closed for many years.<br /><br />Thinking ahead to your coming out talk with your wife, if you don't feel emotional, I'd recommend you don't try to act emotional. If unemotional is how you feel, I think you're best off showing that too. I don't think that need come across as callous. <br /><br />That's all for now - I'm about to fall asleep.<br /><br />Take care<br /><br />MarkA Wandering Pomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13599770008028415551noreply@blogger.com